Build Your Sex Arsenal

Remember that time when... Sitting here and thinking about how it’s September 11, 2019, and remembering the tragedy of our country being...

For all my sapiosexuals out there… I was scrolling through my blogging feed when I came across an article about what socially intelligent...

It’s time for you to get yourself off… After I spoke at the Frost Science Museum in Miami about the Science of Seduction, I had all sorts...

Photo by Afif Kusuma on Unsplash So now you’re ready to meet in person after you’ve been exchanging messages and you’re excited to meet...

Photo by Charles Deluvio on Unsplash I was recently listening to a TEDx talk (like I do a lot), and there was a speaker speaking about...

Love is making the effort over and over and over again… Photo by nappy.co by willpower A lot of us go around in this world...

It’s good to be aware of the difference. Photo by Sharon McCutcheon on Unsplash Sexual liberation comes in all forms, but there’s...

For anyone who says that they don’t need advice in their sex life, they are dead wrong

As long as I’ve been studying sex, relationships, and sexuality, there was something that was ingrained in my head over and over again.

I used to get so tired of people (framily included) who constantly questioned me about aging while single

It’s the little moments that count, so here’s 5 easy things that you can do with a lover during the maddening holiday season.

Sometimes when we think we know the answer and we don’t become expansive, we can think that this relationship might not be a good fit

Love it or leave it?...for now... [pic image: food buffet] Last week, when Jet Setting Jasmine and I were talking about Religious Trauma...

Have you ever been in a situation where you were surprised by something someone said or something someone did? How did it make you feel?

When it comes to sex, “I won’t” usually looks like “I can’t” or “I don’t” or some other version of negative talk

Seduction is a matter of influence, while love bombing is a matter of master manipulation

For those of you who know me, you know that I tell folks that I go by the “3 Strikes Rule” when it comes to my sex life

There are so many answers and interpretations for questions that are simply “yes” or “no” and this can be especially problematic...

We make choices about our health habits, our work life, our family life, our social fabric, and in our sexual lives

For those of you who have been in the loop, you know that May is Masturbation month!