Build Your Sex Arsenal

As relationship dynamics have evolved, so too has the need for a broader, more nuanced understanding of love languages.

Loving your lover is about more than grand gestures or fleeting moments of romance.

Hugging and kissing are more than just physical gestures—they are foundational to maintaining intimacy, trust, and emotional connection.

Our “perfect person” doesn’t exist. Here are some to consider when you run up against something that you find to be a red flag:

"All you gotta do is say yes." - Floetry [pic is black wall painted with a white yes] When folks in relationships come into conflict,...

One person in the relationship isn’t coming into the relationship authentically.

“What have you done for me, lately?” — Janet Jackson Photo by Nappy.co by Dazzle Jam There’s a running theme in my work over the...

Deep belly laughs are all you need to attract love Photo from nappy.co by Pixabay When I laugh, it’s known. It’s known down the...

Freedom & sex go together… Nappy.co picture by @shanalovecoaching In the last blog, I talked about bringing love, peace, and hope in...

PDA’s? Yes, please. I’m a huge fan of people being affectionate in public. I think it’s the most endearing and sweet thing and it’s...

“I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better.” — Maya Angelou Photo on nappy.co by @ cerlov All too...

One simple question that you need answered for a healthy, sexual, long-term relationship Photo at: https://www.nappy.co/?s=jasmine Per my...

Photo by Afif Kusuma on Unsplash So now you’re ready to meet in person after you’ve been exchanging messages and you’re excited to meet...

Photo by Charles Deluvio on Unsplash I was recently listening to a TEDx talk (like I do a lot), and there was a speaker speaking about...

Love is making the effort over and over and over again… Photo by nappy.co by willpower A lot of us go around in this world...

As long as I’ve been studying sex, relationships, and sexuality, there was something that was ingrained in my head over and over again.

Seduction is a matter of influence, while love bombing is a matter of master manipulation

…throw in a little grace, too… Photo by Jon Tyson on Unsplash Reflecting on the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s message of...