Build Your Sex Arsenal

Think strap-on sex is all about the receiver? Think again. From tactile pleasure to Seduction Learning Styles©, being the giver is just as juicy—maybe even more so. Explore the thrill, power, and full-body pleasure of strapping up and owning your role.

Great oral sex on a phallus is more than technique—it’s about energy, enthusiasm, creativity, sensory seduction, and self-care. Whether you're pleasuring a penis, dick, or dildo, this blog explores the 5 things you really need to make your oral game not just good—but devastatingly memorable. From jaw massages to dirty talk, let’s turn your mouth into a weapon of pleasure.

Sometimes, it’s just in the stars… Photo by Alexander Andrews on Unsplash Whether you believe in astrological signs or not, it...

“You can do it, put your back into it.” — Ice Cube Image from Nappy.co by Planetblaster During this time of COVID-19, we have a...

image by nappy.co Are you a person who is incredibly knowledgeable about sex? Are you looking to expand your repertoire and audience? I’m...

“You remember some bedrooms you have slept in. There are bedrooms you like to remember and others you would like to forget.” -Carl...

“Sensuality is not a sexual invitation, it’s a depth invitation.”― Lebo Grand Photo by nappy.co As I prep for my seduction...

Life values are important. Sexual values are just as important. Photo by Ian Schneider on Unsplash Life values are important. Wait, let...

“There are only two genders, male and female. I don’t know what the fuss is about. You can only be in one [category] or the other.” -An...

Blindfolds are just the beginning… Photo by Kirill Balobanov on Unsplash There are a lot of different responses when it comes to sensory...

Freedom & sex go together… Nappy.co picture by @shanalovecoaching In the last blog, I talked about bringing love, peace, and hope in...

And yes, it’s a double entendre… Photo of me by CapturedbyTabia It all started when I was in the second grade. My mom was teaching me sex...

Start your decade off right… Disabled and Here photo taken by Chona Kasinger . As we come to the end of the year, many people are...

“I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better.” — Maya Angelou Photo on nappy.co by @ cerlov All too...

Love it or leave it?...for now... [pic image: food buffet] Last week, when Jet Setting Jasmine and I were talking about Religious Trauma...

There are so many answers and interpretations for questions that are simply “yes” or “no” and this can be especially problematic...