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Slick Decisions: How to Choose the Right Lube for Anal Rimming & Penetration
When it comes to anal pleasure, lube is definitely not optional—but not every lube works the same way. Flavored lubes can make rimming extra delicious, water-based options are versatile and toy-friendly, while silicone lubes bring the long-lasting slickness for extended play. In this guide, we're breaking down how to choose the right lubricant for your booty, your toys, and the kind of pleasure you're craving—because your anal adventures deserve to be smooth, comfortable, and
marla renee
2 days ago5 min read


Backdoor Basics: Anal Anatomy, Hygiene, and Healthy Pleasure
How clean is “clean enough” for anal pleasure—and do you really need to douche? This playful, shame-free guide explores anal anatomy, gentle hygiene, optional cleansing, lubrication, barriers, toy safety, and the body cues that tell you when to slow down or stop. Your booty is part of your body, not a problem to solve. Learn how to care for it with confidence, intention, and pleasure in mind.
marla renee
Aug 26 min read


Warm It Up Before You Back It Up: A Pleasure-First Guide to Warming Up for Anal Play
Anal pleasure should never feel like a race to penetration. A satisfying experience begins with consent, relaxation, genuine arousal, external touch, plenty of lubricant, and the freedom to stop or change direction at any time. In this pleasure-first guide, we’re breaking down how to help the mind and body warm up, what “clean enough” really means, how to choose safer tools and barriers, and why slow is not a lack of skill—slow is a skill.
marla renee
Aug 25 min read


Penis Anatomy 101: A Playful Guide to Pleasure, Sensitivity & Stronger Orgasms
Penis anatomy is more than shaft, size, and stamina. When you understand the frenulum, corona, glans, testicles, and pelvic floor, you can create more pleasure, better communication, and stronger orgasms. This playful guide breaks down the most sensitive parts of the penis, why testicle touch requires consent and care, and how pelvic floor exercises can support erections, ejaculation, and body awareness.
marla renee
May 276 min read


So You Want to Work in the Sex Industry
There’s no one way to do it Marla Renee Stewart speaking about sex education at a movie replaying of Pleasantville. E ver since my...
marla renee
Apr 3, 20203 min read


Looking for Writers!
image by nappy.co Are you a person who is incredibly knowledgeable about sex? Are you looking to expand your repertoire and audience? I’m...
marla renee
Mar 18, 20201 min read


Why My Velvet Lips Are Personal & Political
And yes, it’s a double entendre… Photo of me by CapturedbyTabia It all started when I was in the second grade. My mom was teaching me sex...
marla renee
Dec 16, 20193 min read


Finding Your Path to do the Sexuality Work You Desire
For anyone who says that they don’t need advice in their sex life, they are dead wrong
marla renee
Jan 22, 20193 min read


3 Strikes & You’re Out?
For those of you who know me, you know that I tell folks that I go by the “3 Strikes Rule” when it comes to my sex life
marla renee
Jun 26, 20182 min read


The Choices You Make For Your Sex Life
We make choices about our health habits, our work life, our family life, our social fabric, and in our sexual lives
marla renee
Jun 4, 20182 min read


3 May Masturbation Tips!
For those of you who have been in the loop, you know that May is Masturbation month!
marla renee
May 28, 20182 min read


3 Steps to Take When You’re Doubting Your Relationship
Here are a few ways to dissect your relationship, see if it’s congruent with your partner, and then move on
marla renee
Apr 11, 20183 min read


3 Amazing Period Sex Hacks!
Keep these sex hacks handy next time you or your lover’s period comes around.
marla renee
Mar 26, 20183 min read


6 Rules to Providing Good Quality Sexual Service
Whenever I want to please a lover, I always want to make sure that every experience counts
marla renee
Mar 15, 20183 min read


Sex According to the Basic Emotions
How do we look at sex when it comes to our different emotions?
marla renee
Mar 5, 20183 min read


Simple Sex Club Etiquette
Whether you’ve been to a sex club in your past or you’re curious about what a sex club is like, here are a few simple rules to follow
marla renee
Feb 22, 20182 min read


To Consent…Or Nah…
Some people need that consent because maybe they’ve been triggered by certain touches or maybe they just don’t like being touched
marla renee
Feb 7, 20182 min read


3 Relief Tips For When You Have Pink Balls (aka Horny Crotch Pain)
Throughout the years, I would experience the pain every now and again, but not as consistently like it had been in the past
marla renee
Jan 11, 20183 min read


Marla’s 5 M’s to Upholding Your New Year Sexual Resolutions
I want to help you by giving you the tools you need to support your patience while you try to keep to your sexual goals
marla renee
Jan 2, 20183 min read


It’s Cuffing Season! (Literally!)
This season is literally, all about cuffs and I want you to venture into a place where cuffs can be explored and you know I have a few ideas
marla renee
Nov 15, 20172 min read
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