Build Your Sex Arsenal

Want to know why they aren’t in the mood—or why they can’t keep their hands off you? It all comes down to sexual brakes and accelerators. From stress, kids, and work to flirtation, kindness, and seduction, this blog breaks down what turns us off, what turns us on, and how to reset the mood using your partner’s Seduction Learning Style©.

Our “perfect person” doesn’t exist. Here are some to consider when you run up against something that you find to be a red flag:

"All you gotta do is say yes." - Floetry [pic is black wall painted with a white yes] When folks in relationships come into conflict,...

One person in the relationship isn’t coming into the relationship authentically.

“What have you done for me, lately?” — Janet Jackson Photo by Nappy.co by Dazzle Jam There’s a running theme in my work over the...

There’s so many ways of being open… In the sex educator’s world, we often tell folks to be open to new possibilities that may occur. Our...

Life values are important. Sexual values are just as important. Photo by Ian Schneider on Unsplash Life values are important. Wait, let...

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Freedom & sex go together… Nappy.co picture by @shanalovecoaching In the last blog, I talked about bringing love, peace, and hope in...

It’s the journey that counts. Photo from nappy.co by Caminho Do Despertar The theme for this week has been all about happiness, whether...

PDA’s? Yes, please. I’m a huge fan of people being affectionate in public. I think it’s the most endearing and sweet thing and it’s...

“I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better.” — Maya Angelou Photo on nappy.co by @ cerlov All too...

One simple question that you need answered for a healthy, sexual, long-term relationship Photo at: https://www.nappy.co/?s=jasmine Per my...

Photo by Afif Kusuma on Unsplash So now you’re ready to meet in person after you’ve been exchanging messages and you’re excited to meet...

Photo by Charles Deluvio on Unsplash I was recently listening to a TEDx talk (like I do a lot), and there was a speaker speaking about...

Love is making the effort over and over and over again… Photo by nappy.co by willpower A lot of us go around in this world...

As long as I’ve been studying sex, relationships, and sexuality, there was something that was ingrained in my head over and over again.

Sometimes when we think we know the answer and we don’t become expansive, we can think that this relationship might not be a good fit

Seduction is a matter of influence, while love bombing is a matter of master manipulation

…throw in a little grace, too… Photo by Jon Tyson on Unsplash Reflecting on the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s message of...