Build Your Sex Arsenal

Flirting isn’t about pickup lines—it’s about presence, playfulness, and reading the vibe. This blog breaks down the key differences between non-directive flirting and goal-oriented seduction, and how to navigate compliments, personal space, and making the right offer at the right time. Whether you’re trying to make a connection or just enjoy the moment, mastering this dance can turn awkward encounters into magnetic energy.

Want to know why they aren’t in the mood—or why they can’t keep their hands off you? It all comes down to sexual brakes and accelerators. From stress, kids, and work to flirtation, kindness, and seduction, this blog breaks down what turns us off, what turns us on, and how to reset the mood using your partner’s Seduction Learning Style©.

Great oral sex on a phallus is more than technique—it’s about energy, enthusiasm, creativity, sensory seduction, and self-care. Whether you're pleasuring a penis, dick, or dildo, this blog explores the 5 things you really need to make your oral game not just good—but devastatingly memorable. From jaw massages to dirty talk, let’s turn your mouth into a weapon of pleasure.

Not all erotica hits the same. Explore the erotic world through your Seduction Learning Style©—whether you’re turned on by sultry sounds, vivid visuals, or touchable tales. Discover the best types of erotica for your sensual self and elevate your solo play.

Ready to take your pleasure from routine to unforgettable? Setting the scene is more than just lighting a candle—it’s curating the vibe, the sound, the scent, and the setup. From mood music to massage oils, splash blankets to sexy fits, this blog breaks down everything you need to create a space where your body and mind can fully indulge. Whether solo or partnered, your sensual sanctuary awaits.

Did you know your skin is a literal seduction tool? From sensual fabrics to the way you dance, touch isn’t just physical—it’s psychological. Learn how to tease, tempt, and turn up the heat using body language, fabric play, and intentional pressure.

Unlock the power of your voice! Discover how to captivate through auditory seduction with strategic speech patterns, engaging questions, meaningful feedback, seductive music, and intimate vocal expressions. Transform every conversation into an irresistible connection.

Master visual seduction with 5 sizzling tips to captivate, connect, and make them look twice—every single time.

Just as people have different ways of learning in an academic setting, they also have distinct ways of experiencing seduction, pleasure...

For a moment, we can step outside of ourselves, embody another being, and enjoy the pleasure that comes with that role.

A good sext comes a long way… Currently, there are so many ways to engage in dirty talking with a lover. Traditionally, dirty talk has...

“Sensuality is not a sexual invitation, it’s a depth invitation.”― Lebo Grand Photo by nappy.co As I prep for my seduction...

Deep belly laughs are all you need to attract love Photo from nappy.co by Pixabay When I laugh, it’s known. It’s known down the...

Freedom & sex go together… Nappy.co picture by @shanalovecoaching In the last blog, I talked about bringing love, peace, and hope in...

PDA’s? Yes, please. I’m a huge fan of people being affectionate in public. I think it’s the most endearing and sweet thing and it’s...

“I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better.” — Maya Angelou Photo on nappy.co by @ cerlov All too...

Remember that time when... Sitting here and thinking about how it’s September 11, 2019, and remembering the tragedy of our country being...

For all my sapiosexuals out there… I was scrolling through my blogging feed when I came across an article about what socially intelligent...

It’s time for you to get yourself off… After I spoke at the Frost Science Museum in Miami about the Science of Seduction, I had all sorts...

I used to get so tired of people (framily included) who constantly questioned me about aging while single