Build Your Sex Arsenal

If you’ve ever been so close and still couldn’t get there, you’re not alone. Orgasm challenges are more common than you think—and they often have very real, very treatable causes. From medications to stress, trauma to tension, this blog breaks down the true culprits behind orgasm difficulties. Whether it’s your brain, your body, or both, let’s unpack what’s going on and how to reclaim your pleasure. Because the journey to orgasm should be liberating—not frustrating.

Great oral sex on a phallus is more than technique—it’s about energy, enthusiasm, creativity, sensory seduction, and self-care. Whether you're pleasuring a penis, dick, or dildo, this blog explores the 5 things you really need to make your oral game not just good—but devastatingly memorable. From jaw massages to dirty talk, let’s turn your mouth into a weapon of pleasure.

It might not be your first thought, but it does have benefits. That’s right. If you’re thinking about changing things up in your sex...

Dr. Nagoski explains the science behind our sexual temperament For our book club meetings for Back to the Body , we are taking our time...

The good news is that there are treatments to alleviate or eliminate pain during sex during and after menopause.

For a moment, we can step outside of ourselves, embody another being, and enjoy the pleasure that comes with that role.

Sometimes, it’s just in the stars… Photo by Alexander Andrews on Unsplash Whether you believe in astrological signs or not, it...

Blindfolds are just the beginning… Photo by Kirill Balobanov on Unsplash There are a lot of different responses when it comes to sensory...

And yes, it’s a double entendre… Photo of me by CapturedbyTabia It all started when I was in the second grade. My mom was teaching me sex...

Love it or leave it?...for now... [pic image: food buffet] Last week, when Jet Setting Jasmine and I were talking about Religious Trauma...

Seduction is a matter of influence, while love bombing is a matter of master manipulation

For those of you who know me, you know that I tell folks that I go by the “3 Strikes Rule” when it comes to my sex life

There are so many answers and interpretations for questions that are simply “yes” or “no” and this can be especially problematic...