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Practicing Pleasure: How to Embody More Happiness in Your Everyday Life
When was the last time you asked yourself what genuinely makes you happy? Pleasure isn’t limited to intimacy, grand gestures, or special occasions. It can be found in rest, laughter, music, movement, delicious food, and the tiny moments that make your body exhale. Learn why pleasure is a practice, how to reconnect with what feels good, and how to embody more happiness in your everyday life—without guilt, apology, or waiting until everything else is done.
marla renee
Jul 216 min read


Flirting vs. Seduction: The Art of the Approach
Flirting isn’t about pickup lines—it’s about presence, playfulness, and reading the vibe. This blog breaks down the key differences between non-directive flirting and goal-oriented seduction, and how to navigate compliments, personal space, and making the right offer at the right time. Whether you’re trying to make a connection or just enjoy the moment, mastering this dance can turn awkward encounters into magnetic energy.
marla renee
Jul 10, 20253 min read


What’s In It For Them? The Joys of Being the Strap-On Giver
Think strap-on sex is all about the receiver? Think again. From tactile pleasure to Seduction Learning Styles©, being the giver is just as juicy—maybe even more so. Explore the thrill, power, and full-body pleasure of strapping up and owning your role.
marla renee
Jun 16, 20253 min read


Sexual Confidence Takes Time, Effort, & Experience
Not necessarily in that order… Photo by Juliette F on Unsplash As I was conducting my Build Your Sexual Confidence class on...
marla renee
May 4, 20203 min read


What’s Seductive About You?
“Sensuality is not a sexual invitation, it’s a depth invitation.”― Lebo Grand Photo by nappy.co As I prep for my seduction...
marla renee
Feb 25, 20203 min read


I Will vs. I Won’t: Positive vs. Negative (Sexual) Talk
When it comes to sex, “I won’t” usually looks like “I can’t” or “I don’t” or some other version of negative talk
marla renee
Aug 21, 20182 min read
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