As we continue through cuffing season, we know that single folks are steadily trying to figure out who they can cuddle up with for the winter and the couples (or more) are trying to figure out new kinky moves to foster that creative sexual spark! This season is literally, all about cuffs and I want you to venture into a place where cuffs can be explored and you know I have a few ideas for you!
This past Friday, I talked about how we can take hold of our desires and how that leads us to ultimate pleasure during our SEXxATL event. With that talk, I described the types of seduction that can be had for various learners and what that looks like. Particularly, for tactile learners (people who learn by touch), a really great sensory deprivation tool would be tying a person up or restricting their touch in some way, shape, or form. For instance, I had an ex-partner who was really talented at rope tying and would make these phenomenal ties for our bed so that we can tie up each other or other random fun people that we had in our bedroom. However, nowadays, you don’t have to do those crazy ties yourself. Now that she’s an ex, I’ve found an even better solution to those ties. I found a wonderful bed restraint kit that is absolutely phenomenal. It has been able to do all the things that I want it to do when it comes to restriction and bondage and it’s easy to put together! To get that kinky spark flowing, I highly recommend injecting this kinky rig into your bedroom!
Have you ever wanted to push your lover up against the door and do some naughty things to them? I know I have. It can be so fun navigating intimacy and being aggressive and being spontaneous with your actions. Although this toy is a little less spontaneous, it’s definitely worth the wait. You can put these in the crease above your door and they are perfect if you want to suspend someone’s arms in the air to keep them from touching you. It’s also perfect they can also maneuver with you to help with their body weight if you need it. I found these to be fun and really good when it comes to teasing your lover.
If you’re not too sure about those two things, but you do want to venture into some kink and cuffing, there’s a wonderful starter bondage kit that includes a blindfold (for those who are visual), cuffs, and a tickler. You can experiment with these items, see if they titillate you, and if they do, then you move forward and venture on to something else!
I found a wonderful site that has these bondage kits for all three of these things, so you can go and explore and see what you find the most intriguing or something that really turns you on.
Cuffing season is coming to an end, so you better go get yours soon!
Cheers to your sexual success!