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Kinky Tapas: A Kink Skills Retreat


Time & Location

Oct 13-15, 2023

Portland, OR, USA


About the Event

Are you new to kink and don’t have an idea of where to start? Do you have some experience in BDSM and kink and want to increase your skill set?  Do you want to be in a space that’s BIPOC-centered that can fulfill your needs? If you answered yes to at least one of these questions, then this kink retreat is for you!

In this practical seminar, you’ll learn all the tricks of the trade when it comes to BDSM and kink.  Luna and Marla have combined their knowledge to bring you their best tactics to ensure a play scene that will maximize your pleasure and get your play partners to request you again and again.  In this seminar, you’ll learn the following:

Confidence and erotic creativity

Scene Setting, Safety & Communication

Commanding a Room

Developing confidence and presence

Dominant Do’s and Don’ts

Submissive Communication Skills

Rope Bondage

Spanking & Other Impact Play

Choking & Breath Play

Sensation Play

Genital Worship & Torture

Strap-On Play

Butt Play

Fluid Fetishes

Skills for Subs

Common Fetishes

Any additional fetishes that you’d like to know about!

You'll develop practical kinky skills through practice in two different dungeons. You'll get a feel for what it's like to practice in a supportive small group with hands-on guidance and demonstrations by Marla and Luna. 


You will be able to join our membership community so that you can introduce yourself and connect with other participants.  We will also have a tapas meet and greet the day before the seminar begins and a celebratory brunch.


  • Access to our membership community

  • Teaching from vetted kinksters, Marla Renee Stewart & Luna Matatas

  • Breakfast and lunch catering with snacks during Kinky Tapas

  • Kinky Workbook - hardcopy and digital 

  • Play time in a beautiful local dungeon 

  • A Kinky Kit - sponsored swag from kink retailers

  • Kink photographer to capture moments for you

  • Personal vetting certificate signed by Luna & Marla


Join us in Portland, OR for the ultimate way to explore kink, please your kinky partner and find your own kinky style. 

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