A friend of mine inspired me to write this blog because they have a goal of fucking 100 different women. Now, they’re estimating that if they can beat their number of 6 women last year, they would be in good shape.
This reminded me that I’ve never had a list of certain people that I’d like to have sex with. I’ve had crushes on folks and I’m very clear that I’d have sex with a celebrity (regardless of relationship status), but I’ve never made an intentional list.
However, there’s no time like the present to do it!
Here are a few rules to help you make your “fuck-it” list:
1) Be Specific. The more specific you are, the better you will be able to spot the person or thing on your list.
2) Be Active. Make progress towards your goals. Pick one thing off your list and concentrate on it. Tackling your goals one step at a time ensures that you will be able to get to things on your list without feeling overwhelmed.
3) Be Creative. Think about adventures that you’d like to be a part of and create your own sexual journey.
4) Push Yourself. If you feel like you wouldn’t participate in a certain sexual action, just by feeling, push yourself to actually do it to see if it changes your mind.
Overall, exploration is the key to expanding your sexual journey and creating a world that is complete with being sexually satisfied. Exploration helps you to learn yourself better and know your body better, especially with regards to different acts.
Be the change, do the change, see the change…
Cheers to your sexual success!