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Turn-Ons & Turn-Offs: Understanding Sexual Brakes & Accelerators
Want to know why they aren’t in the mood—or why they can’t keep their hands off you? It all comes down to sexual brakes and accelerators. From stress, kids, and work to flirtation, kindness, and seduction, this blog breaks down what turns us off, what turns us on, and how to reset the mood using your partner’s Seduction Learning Style©.
marla renee
Jul 33 min read
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Outercourse is In: Expanding Pleasure Beyond Penetration
Outercourse isn’t just the opening act—it’s the whole sexy show. Whether you’re skipping penetration for health, pleasure, or curiosity, there are endless ways to connect and turn up the heat. From Seduction Learning Styles© to sensory exploration, discover how to make outercourse the main course in your sex life. Let’s expand what pleasure really means.
marla renee
Jun 253 min read
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The 5 Essentials for Oral Sex on Phalluses (Penises, Dicks, Dildos)
Great oral sex on a phallus is more than technique—it’s about energy, enthusiasm, creativity, sensory seduction, and self-care. Whether you're pleasuring a penis, dick, or dildo, this blog explores the 5 things you really need to make your oral game not just good—but devastatingly memorable. From jaw massages to dirty talk, let’s turn your mouth into a weapon of pleasure.
marla renee
Jun 113 min read
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Setting the Scene: How to Create a Seductive, Stress-Free Space for Pleasure
Ready to take your pleasure from routine to unforgettable? Setting the scene is more than just lighting a candle—it’s curating the vibe, the sound, the scent, and the setup. From mood music to massage oils, splash blankets to sexy fits, this blog breaks down everything you need to create a space where your body and mind can fully indulge. Whether solo or partnered, your sensual sanctuary awaits.
marla renee
May 73 min read
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